5. Theo must have told his parents of Vincent’s refusal to visit him, as emerges from the explanation given by
Mr van Gogh: ‘It’s a pity that Vincent cannot decide to visit you, the more so because you wanted to make it possible for him by sending him money, which he has now sent back.
There might be a human reason behind it, which one can indeed appreciate. I imagine that as long as he is not actually a student, that is until he hears that he has amounted to something, it could well hurt his feelings a bit to present himself now in The Hague to those who knew him before. If once he succeeds in passing an examination, thereby giving proof of actual competence, then he will feel that he has acquitted himself in the eyes of the public. I can understand that feeling to some extent ... I should like him to have a more cheerful tone and also hope that he won’t keep himself too aloof from normal life. He must also apply himself quite seriously to conversation. But I’d like to say to you: do not take it amiss and continue to help him, and if he cannot now decide to come and visit you, go and see him, if you can manage it. You would certainly be doing good, and do remain on an intimate footing with him. He has such urgent need of it.
It is really a formidable task that he has taken upon himself, and it seems that he has started by applying himself to it with all seriousness and not without success.
He has recently seen many members of the family at
Uncle Jan’s and occasionally experienced stressful days there’ (FR b2551, 16 August 1877).
7. Mrs van Gogh did not approve of Vincent’s decision: ‘I was very sorry that Vincent did not accept your good intention. It is not the same thing, going to Baarn or going to see you, but it’s possible he’ll shrink from the idea until he has progressed further, but even so, he should say it plainly, because then I’d be able to understand it. Do continue to write to him faithfully’ (FR b2552, 22 August 1877).
In
De schepping, Ten Kate attempted to reconcile the results of recent discoveries in the field of geology and the teachings of the Bible.
Laurillard, with whom Van Gogh often attended church, praised the book. Bij brood en beker is a ‘guide’ for families wishing to celebrate the Lord’s Supper, and is aimed especially at the younger members of the congregation who wish to profess their faith. The book alternates between poems and songs (by E. Laurillard,
N. Beets,
R. Feith and others), biblical passages, and pieces of prose by various authors, including
Claudius,
Thomas a Kempis,
Fénelon,
Spurgeon,
J.P. Hasebroek and of course Ten Kate himself. Van Gogh read all these writers.