10. The fact that Theo was still none too certain about what to do with his future emerges from a letter written by his sister
Elisabeth during this period. On 21 January 1886 she wrote to
Jo Bonger, with whom she had been corresponding since October 1885: ‘Does your brother write to you often? Mine has bouts of great communicativity (how’s that for a word?) but then relapses into a silence like the grave. I wish I could find him a nice little wife, but that requires an assured future, and well for him who does not look for the former until he is sure beforehand of the latter, otherwise misery, all misery’ (FR b3551).