9. This remark refers to Theo’s infatuation with a woman of low social standing who already had a child. Although Theo apparently felt responsible for her, a proper relationship was impossible:
Mr and Mrs van Gogh learned of the affair and, on 7 March, had voiced their objections (
see letter 111, n. 8). Mrs van Gogh, referring to
Job 38:11, attempted to impress the following upon Theo: ‘imagine that you had not experienced all those sad troubles, you would perhaps have gone on making yourself unhappy, recognize His voice: hitherto and no further. Why should you be lost?’ (FR b2511). A week later she wrote again about this woman ‘who may not be for you’ and tried to console him (FR b2513, 14 March 1877).