1. Vincent’s sister
Anna had received a proposal of marriage from
Joan Marius van Houten, the son of the family in Hengelo for whom she worked as a lady companion. Van Houten, a ‘calmly cordial, reliable boy’, according to
Mr van Gogh, was a manufacturer of shell lime and a member of the firm of Van Houten & Ledeboer, lime-burners at Leiderdorp (
Nederland’s patriciaat 44 (1958), p. 138 and FR b2538, 1 July 1877, Mr van Gogh to Theo (quotation)). Joan had been courting Anna since 20 May, and their courtship surprised not only Vincent but also
Mrs van Gogh: ‘They’ve known each other since Whitsun, and he’s been here a lot. You can imagine how it surprised us’ (FR b2539, to Theo, 2 July 1877). Their engagement was announced on 9 July, and Mr van Gogh wrote to Theo that Vincent was also pleased about it (FR b2540). Vincent’s prediction came true: the marriage was solemnized on 22 August 1878.